Monday, November 14, 2011
It's Monday
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Get walking

Last year we lost someone very dear to my family. My cousin was a teacher, a friend, a column writer a chili cookoff competitor and a world class scrapbooker. She had a smile that lit up a room and I miss laughing with her until my sides hurt. But one of her most important roles was as a fierce advocate for her two boys with autism. I walked in two Autism Speaks walks last year in her memory, and I am so glad I did. The hug from her oldest was such a special moment, and watching her youngest play made me smile. I will be walking again this year: one for the Permian Basin and one for San Angelo. You can click on either link to donate. Thanks!
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Good times
I sure miss these moments. I never imagined 14 would be so different than 9. He's growing up, and I'm sure we will all eventually adjust. But in the in-between time is surely difficult. I have a greater appreciation for what my mom went through when I hit that age.
Friday, November 11, 2011
Those who serve
Gen. George S. Patton
If you enjoy any of the freedoms of this country, thank a veteran. As the daughter of a Vietnam veteran and the granddaughter of a World War II veteran, I am amazed and inspired by the courage of military men and women.
Thursday, November 10, 2011
What I'm reading

Right now I'm just getting started on Michio Kaku's Physics of the Impossible. I'm already in love with its concept of what is impossible today may not be tomorrow.
Kaku is rapidly becoming my favorite physicist. Although I'm not sure I had one before him, maybe Einstein. I must confess that I have a little crush on Kaku for watching him talk sexy about physics on all those science shows. Science can be fun.
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Be careful for what you wish for
It's that time of the year when most companies are offering re-enrollment in their health insurance plans. Most change from year to year and not all companies have them, but if you are working you typically have some sort of coverage. With the president's health care reform, you are supposed to be able to get insurance if your work doesn't provide it or you are still in college. If you are living in poverty, retired or disabled, you likely have Medicaid or Medicare. So we should all have access to health care in some sort of form, right? Well not exactly.
The insurance companies or the government get to decide what is best for you -- not you, not your doctor. Oh there is choice involved, but only if you have the funds to pay out of pocket. If you don't, you don't get much choice.
A few examples:
- If you get injured through no fault of your own, the insurance can make you pay out of pocket for an MRI. Or they can say you have to do x, y, z before we will cover an MRI. Hope you don't do any more damage while we are saving money.
- A maintenance drug that works great to control diabetes is determined too costly. The insurance company makes you pay more for it. Want to get it at your local pharmacy instead of our mail-order pharmacy, no problem just pay five times as much.
- Your doctor thinks you need to be screened yearly for cancer. We will pay this year, but not the next. The government says you only need to get checked for certain diseases every other year, and surely, they have your best interests at heart.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
It's the end ... or not
Have you heard about the aircraft-carrier-size asteroid that is passing between the moon and the Earth tonight? I'll be at work, but I think it might be worth stepping outside for a look.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Hard work
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Eye of the beholder
I see beauty in decay -- the texture, the colors, the new shapes created by thing falling apart. In this house were a human family once lived, new life thrives. Baby birds were safely in a nest in the closet, a pack rat or some other small animal had built a nest in the kitchen cabinets. Nothing is wasted; everything has a purpose even when we don't see it at first glance.
Saturday, November 5, 2011
R.I.P., Andy Rooney
Friday, November 4, 2011
Somebody needs a head butt
He looks like he could be useful as head butter. That doesn't look right, but you know what I mean.
Via Flickr:
Hook 'em
Thursday, November 3, 2011
It's not real
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Life Unchained list update
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Comparisons
Some of the highlights:
"This isn't exactly a movie. It's a sing-a-long."
"Is that John Belushi?" (It was Meatloaf)
"I liked it better than that Patrick Swayze movie."
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Update
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Different strokes
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
One of those days
Monday, January 3, 2011
It made me smile
Sunday, January 2, 2011
2011
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Her royal lowness
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
30 days
Monday, November 29, 2010
Definitions
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Time continuum
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Food for thought
Friday, November 26, 2010
Black Friday
Thursday, November 25, 2010
As God is my witness
"As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly."
Enjoy. Happy Thanksgiving. Have a safe and blessed holiday!
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Tradition
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Oops
Monday, November 22, 2010
I can dream
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Short week
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Getting ready
1- We eat out way too much. I basically just threw money in the trash because we didn't eat what I bought.
2- I am desperately out of shape. Cleaning the refrigerator should not make one sweat.
3- I takes me longer to think about doing housework than it does to just do it. I need to get with the program.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Guilty pleasures
Thursday, November 18, 2010
On the lighter side: the feast
1- Stuffing or dressing: Dressing, cornbread. Any other kind is pointless.
2- I like vanilla and I love pepper, but I am never going to try that recipe for vanilla pepper turkey. That sounds vile.
3- Keep it simple. Green beans do not require 10 other ingredients.
4- Marshmallows do not belong on vegetables. Sweet potatoes are sweet enough, hence the name.
5- Nobody makes pecan pie like my great grandmother. Her recipe is the best. It is unnecessary to try to change it by adding chocolate or turning it upside down.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Small pieces
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
It's an amazing universe

NASA's Chandra Finds Youngest Nearby Black Hole I love that NASA offers so many gorgeous pictures of wonderful things. Sometimes I look through its gallery just to feel small and insignificant. It puts things in perspective.
Photo credit: X-ray: NASA/CXC/SAO/D.Patnaude et al, Optical: ESO/VLT, Infrared: NASA/JPL/Caltech
Monday, November 15, 2010
I know how it feels
The pushmi-pullyu (pronounced "push-me-pull-you") is an "gazelle-unicorn cross" which has two heads (one of each) at opposite ends of its body. When it tries to move, both heads try to go in opposite directions. Dr. Dolittle meets it on his voyage to Africa to save monkeys. (See: The Story of Doctor Dolittle) Source: Wikipedia
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Less is more
Friday, November 12, 2010
Off kilter
20- Spin yarn.
21- Conquer a fear.
22- Learn to roller skate.
23- Take a trip by train.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
War and the written word
Dear Miss Shirley,
Louis Sylvester told me about you so I thought I might write to you. I hope you don't mind.
She didn't.
They began to write back and forth. Beautiful letters that go from Miss Shirley to Shirley Darling. After he returned home from Europe, they got married and moved to Texas to start a family. They had three sons, the eldest would become a war veteran himself. That son would elope to Mexico with young redheaded woman before he shipped out to Vietnam. His daughter was born while he was in Southeast Asia. He came home when she was nine months old and they have been trying to make up for lost time ever since.
So I guess you could say two wars made me. I not only owe my freedom to veterans, I owe my life to two of them. My grandparents' love started with a letter. That love grounded me and gave me a touchstone in my life. I miss them everyday.
So this Veterans Day, thank a veteran and don't forget their loved ones either. It isn't easy being the loved one of someone serving their country. It takes great strength to serve and great strength to share the sacrifices of one who serves.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
A passage
"But in every family there are bad people, and weak people, and some people who can't or won't withstand the trials of life, and who fail spectacularly."
I don't think I'm a bad person, but perhaps I am a weak one. I'm definitely one who tries to avoid trials. It's something I need to work because I don't want to fail spectacularly.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Life unchained: this list continues
10- Swim with dolphins.
11- Visit the Smithsonian.
12- See a bear in Alaska.
13- Get to visit a specific relative face-to-face.
14- Volunteer my time for a cause I believe in.
15- Have one room in my house just the way I want it.
16- Help someone anonymously.
17- Knit a pair of socks.
18- Paint a picture.
19- See a Broadway show in New York.
You didn't really think I was going to end with an even number, did you?
Monday, November 8, 2010
Time change and life unchained
I figured today would be a good day to start my Life Unchained list inspired by Maggie Mason's Mighty Life List. In the spirit of her list, I will have some simple things and some major items. One slight difference is she has 100 items, I will have 99. It's one of my eccentricities that I prefer odd numbers, especially nines. So I will announce the first nine today and keep adding as the ideas occur. Also it's just random order not order of importance. Notice I said eccentricities, not quirks or crazy. That's the beauty of being from the South. Obsessive compulsive much, why yes, why do ask?
My Life Unchained List (aka the bucket list)
1- Take B fishing at the coast where my grandparents took me.
2- Get a passport.
3- Travel to Ireland and kiss the Blarney Stone.
4- Make blackberry jam.
5- Go sailing.
6- Write a novel.
7- Get a freelance job.
8- Learn to fry chicken like my grandmother.
9- Publish a poem.
Sunday, November 7, 2010
And so it goes
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Ahhh
Friday, November 5, 2010
Five for Friday
1- I'm not sure how I got here from there.
2- Why I have I formed more attachments to stuff than I have to people? Now the stuff smothers me and makes it hard to let people in. What do I do to fix that?
3- Why can't most people talk about politics or religion in a civil manner? Even though I enjoy exploring both, I have had to avoid conversations all week to stay out of the vicious fray.
4- I'm very organized at work, yet very disorganized at home. I need to find a balance.
5- Friday is my favorite day of the week. It's my day to recharge, but I need to find ways to make it more productive without adding more stress.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
The nanny state or scapegoats r us
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Muddled thoughts
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Commitment
Monday, November 1, 2010
From the inbox
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Be happy -- or merry
Apparently many people I know feel strongly about it. I, however, don't. I really don't see the harm in wishing someone glad tidings in whatever form.
You can tell me "Happy Holidays," "Merry Christmas," "Season's Greetings" or "Happy Hanukkah" (although that one would be slightly strange since I'm not Jewish). As long as it said with good intentions and you mean it, we're good. If you choose to say nothing at all, I'm also OK with that. My policy is you shouldn't be forced to say anything you don't want to say, and you should only say what you mean.
If someone wants to wish me good will, I'll take it. It really doesn't matter how he or she says it.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
A Thanksgiving request
There will be four empty chairs at somebody's Thanksgiving table today. A father, a mother and their two tiny children, 4 and 2, were found dead from apparent carbon monoxide poisoning. They didn't have electricity and were using a borrowed generator to stay warm. As the story progressed into Monday, we learned the lone survivor of this young family was a 6-year-old who had been staying with her grandmother during the weekend.
On Wednesday, our reporters covered two fatal accidents -- two more empty chairs in the blink of an eye.
In my job we see some good, but we also see a lot of sad and bad. I don't want to be a downer on this holiday, but I want to make a request because you are all important to me. Please be careful, please seek help if you need it, please take care of each other and please hug the ones you love.
I wish you all a blessed and safe Thanksgiving.
Friday, June 5, 2009
Food for thought
Me: The CEO of Freedom is resigning to become the CEO of Playboy. Thought you'd appreciate that.
Him: That's f***ing cool!!!!!!!
Me: Porn is probably more stable work than papers right now.
Him: And pays a hell of a lot more as well ...
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
Mom's good advice
At a very rough time in my life, my mom sent me a card with these words: "Don't forget, you are stronger than you think you are." And she was right.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
When I started using the Internet
I learned a few computer basics in high school and college, but didn't get online until I met my future husband. He had a smoking hot Tandy TRS-100 (an example of this modern technology: http://oldcomputers.net/index.html) Seems like we spent days on the local BBS chat. We really thought we were computer geeks when we got a Tandy desktop with external 300 baud modem. And when we bumped up to 1200 baud, we were hauling butt! Now I whine that the cable modem is soooo slow.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
What is wrong with people?
Friday, January 23, 2009
Not enough in American newspapers
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Rational thinking
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Surely a sign of the apocalypse
Monday, June 25, 2007
No neighbors
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Saturday, June 2, 2007
Sunday, May 20, 2007
He'd be stylin'
Monday, May 14, 2007
I'm just saying ...
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Thinning the herd No. 3
You know it's not going to end well when a story has lead like this: Climbing into a giraffe's cage at the local zoo seemed a good idea after a few drinks.
Friday, May 4, 2007
I'm just saying
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Dream deferred
Saturday we hit the grand opening of a new garden store. I had been toying with the idea of little vegetable container garden. Good potting soil, two different types of tomato plants, lemon cucumbers, mexibell peppers and rosemary followed me home. A little bit of time playing in the dirt and voila a tiny garden was born. They looked a little shell-shocked at first. But Day 2 the rains came and all the leaves perked up and I could see the salad of red, green and gold coming my way.
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Not lovin' it
Saturday, April 21, 2007
Friday, April 13, 2007
Lucky 13
Saturday, April 7, 2007
Easter egg in snow
Wednesday, March 7, 2007
Thinning the herd No. 2
Tuesday, March 6, 2007
Butterflies are free
Saturday, March 3, 2007
Tuesday, February 27, 2007
Thursday, February 1, 2007
Thinning the herd
Monday, January 29, 2007
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
Bitter cold
Thursday, January 11, 2007
Saturday, January 6, 2007
Thursday, January 4, 2007
He has his moments
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Thursday, December 28, 2006
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
More Mason-Dixon knitting
Sunday, December 24, 2006
Anti-Christmas past and present
Present: This year I have to a work today, so it has been Christmas all week. We opened presents Friday, Saturday and Sunday. A good time was had by all -- especially the one who got more G.I. Joe stuff to add to his ever-growing collection.

Not a difficult question
Coming soon: The anti-christmas.
Saturday, December 23, 2006
Thursday, December 21, 2006
New hobby grabs another one
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
He's addicted
In other news: Christmas rapidly approaching, nothing ready.
Monday, December 18, 2006
Weekend update



Saturday was a day of exploring the site of a nuclear explosion and finding our first geocache with the family. A fantastic day that lead the sweet spouse and I to go out and find three more caches Sunday.

Coming soon: Sweet child will be here for Christmas and hopefully more geocaching. He's going to love it.
Good advice No. 2: From a package containing a grow-your-own alien: Not for human consumption. In other words, don't eat the alien.
Friday, December 15, 2006
Another reason to love living in West Texas
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
Bits and pieces
Sad to see: I never really cared for "Everybody Loves Raymond," but Peter Boyle was in one of my favorite "X-Files."
On tap: More ghost-town hunting.